Things , Feeling , and Emotions

Sometimes things might not be as it seems:-)

Tht is something i would think tht all of us should agree on... For example, if someone just come out to u and said tht "Oh, here is rm200, please take it"... would u take it without really hesitating it tht there is no catch behind it? A simple example...

It's easy to say by all the materials in the world... there is no free lunch...

How about in relationship, where feelings and emotion plays a part in daily life? Could it be something u have to provide or first sacrifies before u get something? maybe not in terms of monetary value or material stuff? or maybe i does involve all tht?

I'm nt sure... cause very one is different in their own mind and world:-)

But for me, definately is nt about materialsm or monetary when it comes to relationship... yet it plays a part on in...

Today i've listen to one of the radio station and it says " Do u prefer a chick over PHYSICAL apprerance or a chick with BRAIN? "....

Primitivly thinking of course guys are attracted to Physical apprerance but then when logical and common sense comes in, chick with brain will be the only choice!

However if out of the box, i would prefer someone tht can communicate in the relationship, can if u take out all the criteria of a person tht u r looking, u will find tht communication part is the MOST important out of any criteria...

The person tht u r looking for might be perfect for u, BUT if cant communicate, what's the point? Bear in mind tht communication will not only takes place verbally, it could be non verbal when u r communicating cause "When u r nt communicating, u r communicating to others" so it means tht everyone communicates differently, and will see how good are in interpreting wht he or she thinks and communicate plus how well u cope with different ppl in their very own way:-)

BTW, life just up and down now days but hoping to get better after exam... haha... one thing really bother me very much is, on Thursday 9th April 2009 is 100th days of my relationship and i want to get somethings for HER and have plans for tht day and so on and so forth 1 month ahead.... It's just tht i realised now tht, it's the day before Good Friday, which we need to be in church and SHE's working on daytime, and i have Criminal MOck test the next day!!! everthing just came in like this!!! So all my plans all ruin:-( but the most sad of all is, i can't afford to get her anything:-( it has been a month i'm nt working and i have sign up for my drum course, pay my bills bla bla bla....

Maybe she might think it's just accuses... i dont know:-( i'm trying very hard to acc her and makes her happy everyday, but tht is only i can do for HER.... i hope SHE might appreciate for wht i've done for HER:-) i dont need any presents from HER neither need to acc me everyday, all i need is to see HER smile when she see me... a pure honest and a big smile, looking at me and from HER eyes saying tht she LOVES me!!! tht is wht i needed the most:-)

Anyway hoping forward into learn more things day by day... and to be happy with life:-)

GOD bless!!!